Let me assure you that change is possible for you.
More than likely you learned along the way that staying guarded or numb or that distracting yourself with substances or an overbooked schedule was easier than actually feeling negative emotions. But now you’re coming to terms with the reality that avoidance is only making everything feel worse. It’s affecting your relationships, your health, your work, even your sense of self. It’s getting harder to manage every day.
Are you ready to release what you’ve been holding deep down inside?
Here’s the thing: trying to keep your emotions bottled up is like trying to hold a kickboard under water. At first it’s totally doable. But then your body starts to ache. Your arms and shoulders stiffen. And the stress of suppressing hijacks your mind’s ability to pay attention to much of anything else. Eventually you have to let go. It just takes too much energy to resist what wants to come up.